Stop playing and start being honest and live. Fun is being honest that way everybody knows what to expect and relax.

Thelionessqueenwrites DeanaMarie
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"Everybody aint for eveybody but not everybody looking for that somebody" some just in play mode so ask and tell enjoy life.. By doing thing right.. That concept seems hard for alot of men and women these days to understand. We not in the 1800s or begining of ttime nowhy act like each person you are are attracted is gonna want kids or a commtment why say you gonna be with another and just them o worse assume it when you or possible nor them either are ready. Its all this glamorized bull shit and drama people get a high of off unti it falls apart. I get trid of seeing hear about people being heart broken.. Shit I got tired f being one o those people so im honest from the start and if it dont fit it ccan honest fun then its not for me..peeps toto serious starting out... Sex talking commit before they even know the person really.
What people fail to realize is in friendship dating and intimate relationships honest is key to enjoy and maintain them and grow... Make it clear what you are looking for or not looking for not out of fear but out of honesty to self and the other person... Allow them to make a decision base on truth...
People have forgotton and some never learn that dating and a relationship has differences.. In dating it may be that you hang with chill or go out with more than one person, in a causal intimate relationships its the same concept only each party knows the other is more than likely seeing others and possibly having sex with others...
"In a friendship no sex is involved"
In an intimate one on one relationship you have both dated and found that you only want to have sex with eavh other and only spend quality time with each other but may have friends but it is a totally friend zone thing or you dont see those people in a close setting. Simple huh smh, most ‪#‎peoplez‬ dont get it young nor old.
Its better to be honest... That way no one gets hurt and you can enjoy each other. If you want more then you must let it be know, if you dont want more you must let it be known... But dont punish self or others due to not knowing how to communicate effectivley. We derseve to look we derserve men and women to love and be loved tight. Love doesnt always mean jump into it and be commitment  right away.. Feel the waters... Ya'll be rushing shit then get mad when you find the person is not for you or thinks your not right for them... And most times its true others times somebody got scared because the communication was off from day 1. Ive been there ive done that too lesdon learned... Its not about becoming totally committed just to be loved or love you gotta get there first and have something to hold on too.. I just dont believe its hard if we all do it right and be easy with it. Enjoy life its easier when your honest and feel things out first ...before jumping in letting sex money, things etc. Blind you instead let your heart and mind do the work.
‪#‎DeanaMarie‬
Just wanting to take my time... If i meet the right one great but so much comes into play before you really know most times if this is the one that will last... So dont rush it just enjoy peoplez company.
People scared and either run to the wrong one and end up unhappy or stay alone unhappy waiting for what is passing them by because know one communicates honestly.
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